yeah whenever i meet some new people i never really say anything i just laugh at the jokes, i dont know what to say most of the time and whenever i would think of something i always think if i should say it or not.. i sometimes worry about what they would think bout me if i said something.. like will they look at me differently afterwards or what? and i know i shouldnt care about what others think about me but i cant help it.. how can i get rid of this problem and boost my confidence up?
When i meet new people i cant say much how can i speak out more?
Hey there. I can relate to your question, goodness knows we all want to make a good first impression. And sometimes it is difficult when you have to meet a new person or group, as you don't know yet if you have any common ground. But don't forget they are in the same boat also. Don't over think things. Truly just be natural. After all if you aren't going to be yourself, then you aren't going to be able to connect with someone and form any kind of friendship. Some people are great at holding the floor when you first meet them, but it doesn't take long to realise that there isn't much else there. From experience I can tell you Id much rather a person who is genuine, than someone with a big mouth.
Keep smiling and believe in yourself!!
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