Tuesday, July 20, 2010

How do I meet new people after a break up?

I broke up with my live in boyfriend/fiance a week ago. He has already found a group of guys to move in with and lots of other fun activities. I, on the other hand, am moving back in with my folks to save money. I really am at a loss at what to do with myself. I work full time so am busy during the day. I don't know what kind of activities women around 25 do in the evenings. I was thinking of going back to school (hooray tuition reimbursement) but also want some other ways to meet people my age. Any ideas?

How do I meet new people after a break up?
what about the gym, or some sort of exercise activity, plus if your going back to school do they do fun classes like art etc always meet new ppl at colleges/schools
Reply:Go to the mall and hang out with your friends, maybe you will bump into someone nice.
Reply:Church is your best bet...and next time DON'T move in with the guy.
Reply:When I was 26 and suddenly single I also faced this situation. I was lucky enough to work with a group of single women with whom I became good friends. They kept me busy and I needed to be busy right after a breakup. We even used to take vacations together. Once we went on a cruise and that was fabulous! We would also go to bars, museums, concerts, parks, you name it. If it was a fun activity we did it together. We got bored once and joined a bowling league just for kicks. Well, I met a long time boyfriend there, believe it or not!





Back then we didn't have the internet, though. These days I am always meeting people online. I join mailing lists and chat groups centering around my interests. I usually gravitate towards interests that would attract nice, decent people. I have made some great friends that way and have expanded my social circle greatly, too. I have a great BF now but I am still single and still get together with the friends I have made online.





If you go back to school that will take up a lot of your time and then you will probably be asking us how to make more time for your social life, LOL. Seriously, in the evening you can read, take up a new hobby or get into renting DVDs if you don't know what else to do with yourself. Learn to like being alone, too. I joined a gym and bike ride and that has helped to fill up my evenings as well.
Reply:thats easy everyone knows by now youre single and looking.
Reply:i am in the same boat except i have a daughter and my own place.just go out with your friends or co workers to eat or whatever you guys do. don't try myspace!!! if you want to make friends or more try


www.bookofmatches.com


see what you can find there. good luck
Reply:hey ola.. lady get a hobby to occupy ur time, go n join some tango or latin dance classes where u can meet cute guys too. also the best way is to booze up ur confidence whenever u r at any cafe, be friendly n sit wit anyone u dont know.. start chatting, be positive.. at the end of the month u'll have many friends around u.. try it! it works!
Reply:Just be yourself. If you are trying to force it, people will know.
Reply:Go and check out some of the singles dances..You not only have fun but it is a way to make some really good friends...Have fun you are still young and should be enjoying life...
Reply:If you are an interesting, hard-working, responsible person working in an interesting, responsible job and you are going out to interesting, morally responsible places, ...you are very soon going to meet a lot of interesting, responsible guys-- it's a guarantee.





And the opposite is also true.
Reply:GO BACK TO SCHOOL!
Reply:join a group that do activities, play group sports go out to clubs come on meet new people
Reply:Get some friends. Myspace. No, but I really answered this, tolet you know. I do have friends,AND THEIR REAL! lol im playin, im not being hostile, im in a really good mood, and just dont be angry! or RUDE towards people as IN mEe!


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