Im trying to meet new people....?

im trying to meet new people. im new on the market... i was with the same girl for 8 years.. now i would like to find a new one. for some reason i cant. the whole time i was dating, i had girls hit on me all the time. now that im single, nothing!!!! im not that bad looking, although my pic doesnt look that great. anyway, should i actually pay eharmony or something like that?

Im trying to meet new people....?
I have experienced the same. Once you are single the opposite sex tends to be more careful before hitting on you. Once in a relationship you have a lot more people flirting with you (because you are less likely to misunderstand maybe).





Now that you are by yourself, go out and meet new people. Join a club. Take up a new hobby. Take an evening class. Go to venues where you haven't been before. Don't be afraid to speak to people, not just girls your own age but people of both sexes and all ages.





Good luck!





By the way: If you and your girlfriend weren't married you are not obligated to pay her.
Reply:HEY,HOW OD ARE YOU?
Reply:Do you know how many of us wish we could be in your situation? Dude, turn off that computer, hit the bars. If you're too shy to go up to someone, have your married friends hook you up with one of their wives, just don't be surprised if sometime soon they all hate you for dating all the wifey girlfriends they always had a thing for.