People love my sister but then they meet me, hate her, and love me insted. how do i change that?

people would meet ,my sister and think she is cool and all. but then they meet me and they start to hate her and think im awsome. i dont want my sister to be thought of like that. i want to change it. but i dont kno how to do that without them hating me. any ideas??

People love my sister but then they meet me, hate her, and love me insted. how do i change that?
I really dont get why these people think they have to hate someone just because they like you more. It is possible to be friends with the both of you. These people are very shallow and are not really friends to anyone. If they treat her that way eventually they will treat you that way too when someone more "awesome" comes along. I hope you dont waste your time with these shallow idiots.


Real friends dont treat people like that. Get rid of them and stick with your sister. And when a good friend comes along you and your sister can share that friend.
Reply:you need to talk to these people and tell them how you really feel and think. tell them how you think your sister shouldnt be excluded. mabey ask your friends and your sister if you could all do somthing together s onobody gets left out. if you do that try not to draw too much attention to yourself and give some respect to your sister.mabey when you , your friends and your sister are together mention some ood or cool things your sister has done in the past or mention funny times that will make everyone smile. All you have to do is either tell them how you feel or include her in a lot of thing. I really hope this help. oh and i head your sister ran away, i hope she comes home soon i am praying for her you and your family
Reply:You can't do anything about it. They see her, compare her to you, and make choice based on what they see about who they like better. It's a function of the personality she expresses, not of you. Unless, of course, you are doing something to encourage them to hate her in order to steal away their friendship from her for yourself, in which case that would be pretty effin' twisted, evil and wrong. Only you know the answer.
Reply:when they start lovin you, The only way is to break their heart. Difficult situation, but you have to stand up for your sis and tell them that she is cool and tell them you dont want to be with them. Use some force to get your point across.