Where can I meet new people?

I don't know what I should do...I asked this guy to prom and he seemed really sweet at first (he goes to a different school than me)....we started hanging out and I really fell for him....and it seemed as if he liked me as well (he always wanted to hang out)....however, he called me recently and told me that I was too boring and awkward to go to HIS prom with him and that he'd rather not go to prom than go with me (and then he asked me to set him up with one of my friends)


I'm really destroyed over this...I want to know the BEST places to meet new people...and how to talk to them...I'm smart, but not so funny, quiet, not so bad looking but severely lacking in confidence...any suggestions?

Where can I meet new people?
Wow that he is a jerk i i know exactly what you going through same thing happen to me but its ok just dust yourself off it may not be easy at first but you'll be able to get through. Well you can meet people any where likes clubs for example but i don't highly recommend that or school i think that's best but sometimes you got to look maybe that person you looking for is right in front of you and you don't even know it, but you sound like a cool girl you'll find someone personally i like quiet girls cause i am a little timid myself.


Stay blessed
Reply:The first thing is believe in yourself...don't let someone make you feel like you like you are less. Having confidence is the key to attracting someone. Honestly, as you get older you start caring less about what other people think about you. The key is to try and not care about what other people think. At the end of the day, who are they to you anyway????





The best way to meet someone is while doing something that interests you....team sports, clubs, etc. At least that shows that there is a common interest. Firstly though you need to work on your confidence otherwise you will always feel insecure (which will show). Good Luck!
Reply:I agree..he is a jerk! But honestly you should thank him because he wasn't right for you..you deserve better (even though I know you probably don't think that right now). If you are lacking in confidence you need time without a man to find yourself so you can be happy with who you are before you put someone else that you can attatch to that makes that void in your life. I feel the same way sometimes because I hardly have any friends, no family, and my boyfriend just moved away so it is hard but I promise once you find out who you are..the perfect guy will come find you!
Reply:Gee..we could be best friends :P





But honestly, at school, join in on school stuff, like Band if you like music, or maybe drama if you like acting.Do something you like, because then you'll meet other people that share something in common with you. It does't matter what it is.





eg.You can walk into a totally new group, an art group, let's say, and you'll already know that everybody in that group has at least one thing in common with you. They all like art. then you'd have something to talk to them about, and before you know it you'll have a few good friends.
Reply:Try going out for a club such as an acting group, local newspaper or something similar. I've found a bunch of new friends through camps as well - both sleepaway and day. Also, try some volunteer work - people usually don't volunteer unless they're good people. Maybe try hanging out with a different group of people @ school as well. See wat happens.
Reply:go out clubbin with ur friends that is the key to finding someone