Where can you meet people after college?

Since I graduated college, I've been feeling really lonely.





Where can I go to meet people, especially women? Don't say church, because I'm not religious. And don't say bars, because going to a bar by myself is sad.

Where can you meet people after college?
You guys are crazy!!! Youre already getting down on yourselves. The gym, Basketball leagues, Softball leagues. I am assuming you want to meet women, but you need to meet a few guys to hang out with first. All those places will work.


Listen, going to the bar by yourself isnt a bad thing. It doesnt have to be a club. It can be a pub, hole in the wall, etc. Look for "Theme nights" Trivia, Karaoke, poker, etc. You will find a group of friends. Talk to the bartenders about whatever. (bartended for 5 years). People are more willing to talk than you think.





Start up conversations with anyone, EVERYONE. Where ever you are. Its not hard to meet people, but impossible to meet people if you dont go out and do things.
Reply:You can meet new people all the time. On the job, in the street, in church, in bars, and numerous other places, until you are a hermit and stay home.
Reply:beats me man, that pretty much only leaves work
Reply:The Mall!
Reply:If you figure it out man share the wealth with the rest of us. Graduated May 2006 and I'm still feeling that sort of thing.
Reply:If we knew the answer to this we'd be the most popular people in the world. It's frustrating when you're not into bars, becuase that's where all my friends seem to meet people!